I am not what you could call a “Gamer” by any stretch of the imagination.   The only  home video game system I had as a kid was the late 70’s early 80’s the epic commercial  failure - RCA Studio II “home TV programming system”.   It was about as basic and basic gets.
It had some simple built in games like ping pong, bowling and a very basic drawing/doodling program, and you could play others off of cartridges that you plugged into the console.
It had some simple built in games like ping pong, bowling and a very basic drawing/doodling program, and you could play others off of cartridges that you plugged into the console.
During this time, my parents, were going through a phase in their approach to child rearing, I like to refer to as their “Stalinist thugs who didn't believe in joy” era. Hence their idea of fun computer games was essentially limited to the “schoolhouse” series of cartridges,
The 'games' included things like "History Quiz" and of course, Dad’s favorite , one thrilling and very exciting little gem called "Math Fun"...
A few years later  my  Dad noticed my interest in the works of the late, great  Science Fiction/Comedy  author  Douglas Adams,  (in whose honor this blog is named.) , and for Christmas in  1984 got me the  interactive computer game for  Adams’ book  “The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy”.
In 1984 to say a computer game was “interactive” meant the display was all text. There were no graphics or sounds. The game roughly followed the basic outline of the story and featured a series of puzzles and quests, the solutions to which, were largely determined by actions and choices that you, the player made over the course the game.
I thought it was brilliant, and was hooked instantly. Even with no sounds or graphics I found the story, and the fact that my path through that story was in part determined by ME, to be irresistible. I would spend hours and hours on it.
Earlier this year,  my Dad shared a story of how he and my Mother were concerned about the amount of time I was spending playing the game, and how it might be affecting  my study skills.  So late one night, after I had gone to bed,  my Dad booted up the game  and tried to play it.   After a spending a futile two hours  trying to  get  past the first  puzzle,  he told my Mom that  if I could  solve  the problems  in the game  they needn't worry about my cognitive abilities.
There was one real side effect of all this though.    As a result,  of being bored by the games we had with sound and animation, and  getting practically  addicted to a text-only  experience,  I never really got the  “video game bug. “ 
Fast forward 15 years. While living in South Korea, my boyfriend at the time, introduced me to my first “modern” computer game. It was “Oddworld – Abe’s Odyssey” . It combined state of the art (for 1997) graphics with interactive story telling and it had a soundtrack. We would end up spending entire Saturdays playing it non-stop.
But that is pretty much where my experience with computer games ended. I have never owned a playstation, Nintendo or any other kind of gaming system. I haven’t really followed what was going on in the gaming world , and for the most part could mention only a handful of popular games, based on nothing more than having seen television commercials for them.
And, being honest, I didn't really know or care what I was missing. Computer games really were not something I was interested in or paid any attention to.
Then last year,   Games makers Bioware   and   Electionic Arts (EA)  released the third  installment of their  Mass Effect  trilogy of games.    For those of you  who  are not familiar with this, the “Mass Effect” games  tell the story of  the crew of the  spaceship  SSV Normandy,  who have to save  both Earth and the galaxy from  being destroyed by a race of synthetic  life forms  known as  “Reapers”.
The first two installments (Mass Effect and Mass Effect 2) take you through a series of adventures in the run up to what in the third game is an all out galactic war to save pretty much …well, everybody from the big bad reapers.
All That changed in Mass Effect 3. In the final installment your Shepard has the option for a romantic relationship with either a male or female partner. You know what's coming...
Right on cue, we have the oh-so-predictable outrage on the American wingnut conservative right….
In 1984 to say a computer game was “interactive” meant the display was all text. There were no graphics or sounds. The game roughly followed the basic outline of the story and featured a series of puzzles and quests, the solutions to which, were largely determined by actions and choices that you, the player made over the course the game.
I thought it was brilliant, and was hooked instantly. Even with no sounds or graphics I found the story, and the fact that my path through that story was in part determined by ME, to be irresistible. I would spend hours and hours on it.
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| HHG2TG Game Screenshot | 
Fast forward 15 years. While living in South Korea, my boyfriend at the time, introduced me to my first “modern” computer game. It was “Oddworld – Abe’s Odyssey” . It combined state of the art (for 1997) graphics with interactive story telling and it had a soundtrack. We would end up spending entire Saturdays playing it non-stop.
But that is pretty much where my experience with computer games ended. I have never owned a playstation, Nintendo or any other kind of gaming system. I haven’t really followed what was going on in the gaming world , and for the most part could mention only a handful of popular games, based on nothing more than having seen television commercials for them.
And, being honest, I didn't really know or care what I was missing. Computer games really were not something I was interested in or paid any attention to.
The first two installments (Mass Effect and Mass Effect 2) take you through a series of adventures in the run up to what in the third game is an all out galactic war to save pretty much …well, everybody from the big bad reapers.
I immediately ran out and purchased  the whole trilogy.    Not because I  was interested in shooting big ugly aliens   and blowing up  various pieces of space hardware,  but  rather because of news reports about  the new customization options  that were introduced  with  Mass  Effect 3.   In the first two games,  you could always  pick what gender  wanted the main character to be.
There is both a Male and Female Commander Shepard. As such you were able to flirt with and have a relationship with, a whole selection of other characters in the games. But whereas flirting could go pretty much any way you wanted, (Male, Female, Human, Lizzard, whatever…) actually having a romantic relationship, was limited in games 1 and 2 just to opposite genders.
There is both a Male and Female Commander Shepard. As such you were able to flirt with and have a relationship with, a whole selection of other characters in the games. But whereas flirting could go pretty much any way you wanted, (Male, Female, Human, Lizzard, whatever…) actually having a romantic relationship, was limited in games 1 and 2 just to opposite genders.
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| Male & Female Commander Shepard | 
All That changed in Mass Effect 3. In the final installment your Shepard has the option for a romantic relationship with either a male or female partner. You know what's coming...
Right on cue, we have the oh-so-predictable outrage on the American wingnut conservative right….
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WED 04 APR 2012 7:49PM GMT / 3:49PM EDT / 12:49PM PDT 
EA is standing up for same sex relationships in games despite outrage
from some
EA has been inundated in recent weeks with whatGamesIndustry
International understands to be "several thousand" letters
and emails protesting the inclusion of same sex or LGBT (lesbian, gay,
bisexual, and transgender) content in its video games, most notably Mass Effect
3 and Star Wars: The Old Republic. When asked, EA confirmed that this has
indeed been occurring, and unsurprisingly, EA has no plans to censor any of its
games.
"Every one of EA's games includes ESRB content descriptors so it's
hard to believe anyone is surprised by the content. This isn't about protecting
children, it's about political harassment," Jeff Brown, VP of corporate
communications told us.
The letters have been directed to EA's
executive team, creative heads, its board of directors and just about anyone at
a high level. Many of them threaten to boycott EA's titles if the publisher
refuses to remove same-sex relationship content.
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So essentially,  when I heard  the 
American Taliban had it’s 
knickers in a twist  over two
soldiers of the same sex in a computer game falling in love while they save the galaxy,  how could I not run right out and buy it?   If for no other reason  than as  a vote of support  to  the
makers of the game for  designing  inclusive content.
The discs sat on my bookcase for  three months  until  about two months ago I noticed them and figured  I may as well  try playing the game.   I installed  the needed odds and ends on my laptop and thought as I wasn't really all that interested in seriously playing the game  I'd just  jump in and start  with  Mass Effect 3.  I was intrigued to see who  made up the  voice cast .
Simply put the production values  were  incredible,  This is not  what I thought a computer game was.  This is  essentially a motion picture that you  are part of.     The thing  that  really grabbed me and would not let go,  was the story.   Just like in a  really good movie  you find yourself actually caring about what happens to  these characters.   Then there is the  added element of  the "customization options" that has the Wingnuts and on the right  so upset.     
The story arc  for  a same sex relationship is something you have to deliberately choose.  There isn't anyway you can accidentally  end up Gay in Mass Effect 3.    But  just like any good, believable  romantic story,  the same sex romantic plot line doesn't  force itself into the narrative.  If you choose to "go that way"  it progresses  as naturally  as you would expect any love story to,  
Only this one  also involves  blowing stuff up and saving the galaxy.  
I am thoroughly  enjoying my trip through the Mass Effect Universe and plan later this Summer when I have the time,  to go back and play the first two installments in the series.   I have no plans to become a "gamer", but  I can;t help but  be  grateful to  EA and Bioware for having the courage to make a game that  sends a clear message to  Gays and Lesbians  that they exist in the virtual  world too. 




 


